So be it

What was it that people said, about things getting tougher as the wedding date draws nearer?

I am actually quite frustrated with the fact that Mr. Jang finds me too panicky and I find him lacking a sense of urgency on the issue of finding a venue for the banquet. I have always thought we are on the same wavelength but I'm starting to discover how differently we see things some times.

The only reason I can think of, and draw a parellel to, is how different we are when it comes to work. His work has always been a more relax and laid back kind while mine has always been hectic/fast-paced with 101 things to complete within a short time frame. Hence, I have little patience on such things and am always wanting to get things done in the fastest, shortest period of time so that I can move on to other stuff. Obviously, it's not working here.

And hence, to avoid a scenario where we start to get really annoyed with each other, I have decided to adopt a laissez-faire attitude. If we end up with a less-than-ideal location because of the delay in confirming a venue, then so be it. Have more than enough things on my mind to worry about.